To be rejected is the worst
experience we could ever have. Rejection
can wound not only our pride but the deepest
part of our emotion which sometimes can destroy us if we don’t overcome
this feeling. Many people committed
suicide, turned to illegal drugs or became alcoholics when they couldn’t come
into terms of their being rejected. This
is the harsh reality of rejection, it can deprive us a promising future, can
inflict us deep wound that has no cure and can even cost us our life.
The reality behind rejection why
it is harmful and hurtful because it tells us that we can never be accepted or
welcome in certain situation or society that we want to belong. Sometimes it is also through our love and
attachment to another person, if we want to give all and want to be an integral
part of him or her but if we only become rejected then that could be the worst
moment of our life. Our good intention
or high expectation if only will be for nothing and others will just care less,
it can be very damaging to us emotionally which can even affect our physical
being.
We should learn how to handle
rejection to our advantage so it will not create damage in our life. Rejection may be our worst nightmare but it is
not a general opinion, some may reject us but others can also welcome us with
open arms. We should bear in mind not to
expect too much so rejection is easier to bear, if we expect too much chances
are we will not be ready to accept rejection if its slapped directly into our
face. Rejection is one of life’s realities
that we should accept whether we like it or not.